ok fine here's the context :
so uhh- this is lore related, since Tara's her ex, Mary always tries to get her back despite knowing they already have Austin.- uh- it's canon that Austin and Mary fights ALOT, maybe 2x a day.- they eventually stopped and questioned what they were even fighting for anymore- uh- since Tara already made their decision final- uh- despite that Mary still fights with Austin.. uh- now they're just questioning if it's worth it or not- y- uh-