Just for clarification, my parents will sometimes visit. My education, housing, groceries, water, and electricity are all paid for.
She just can't stand both me and my brother. She has her own issues.
I don't want to call this abuse since she never hits us, or has too high of an expectation from either of us. So, it's all up to interpretation.
I still love her. Always will. Don't wanna sound too ungrateful but I sure did wished she tried emotionally.